Now
Winter 2026
I would be foolish and a liar if I said anything was going on that was more important than my grief over the death of my son, Paco, in March 2025. Everything from my work-life, to how I spend time with the rest of my kids and my wife, who are also grieving, has been affected by this los. Paco was a tremendously funny and energetic kid.
When it rains it pours. My father died on Ash Wednesday, February 18.
But even in grief, there is joy. Sold my house in Arizona and welcomed a new child into the home.
Of course, that’s not all I’m doing.
- Learning jiujitsu
- (re)Settling into a new city (or, rather, an old favorite of mine)

